About

Sharne

About Sharne

I grew up in the Adelaide Hills on a hobby farm and was blessed with a wide range of experiences as a child, including milking cows, feeding orphaned lambs and calves, riding my neighbour’s horse, cycling like a daredevil up and down the hills, and simply walking barefoot through the paddocks (as long as the bull wasn’t too close by). As a family, we went camping, holidayed at the beach, played games, visited grandparents and family friends, and all helped out on the farm.

I enjoyed my primary school years in the small country town we lived in; however, life changed quite dramatically for me the same week I began high school. Chronic family illness occurred suddenly, creating many pressures and relationship fractures. I found high school in the city to be a very confusing place, both socially and academically, and I experienced bullying and isolation.

In senior high school, I considered becoming a counsellor, but family members encouraged me not to pursue that path. I wobbled my way through subject choices and exams, trying to get into university because I was told—and believed—that it was the key to success. It was a very daunting time, and I went down many roads that led to a lot of learning opportunities. Eventually, I found my footing and worked as a medical receptionist for a group of four doctors in Mount Barker.

In my mid-20s, my then-fiancé and I set out to travel Australia, heading straight up the middle and settling in Darwin for seven years. During that time, we got married and had two wonderful sons. We joined a church and shared many joyful times with family and friends, despite my struggle with postnatal depression for most of that period. Eventually, we moved back to the Adelaide Hills, where I homeschooled our two older boys for most of their primary years. I became deeply interested in natural treatments through integrative health doctors, and after several years of recovery from PND, we were blessed with another lovely son.


Sadly, my marriage ended, and I found myself grappling to find my identity as a single mother who no longer homeschooled. The idea of studying counselling, which had surfaced occasionally throughout the years, resurfaced, and I knew it was the right time. I embarked on that journey in 2017 and have never looked back. I realised that this had been part of my calling since I was about 16 years old, and I finally had the time and space to pursue it.


I have since completed my Graduate Diploma in Counselling and Integrated Psychotherapy (Spiritual). I am a Level 2 member of the Australian Counselling Association (ACA) and a member of their School of Supervisors.


The next logical step for me was to create a private counselling practice that would allow me to balance my professional work with my family responsibilities. My desire is to serve people locally and across Australia, helping them find their inner peace.

With a love and passion for people and healthy connections, I desire to help my clients see their own worth and individuality, to find their strengths, and to reach their goals.

I also love to help couples unravel the tangles they find themselves in, and learn to really hear and value each other, creating less conflict, and opening space for understanding, peace and enduring love.

Sometimes, the foundations have been smashed or are a little wonky from past hurts and traumas that have stuck. Sometimes, it can be habits that are hard to break. I use techniques that can bring noticeable change during each session.

As a Counsellor, my style is warm, compassionate, patient, insightful, supportive, and at appropriate times, I love to bring in some humour.

I bring to my counselling, not only my qualifications in formal study, but half a century of diverse life experience and recovery from:

  • Family dysfunction and divorce

  • Abuses

  • School bullying

  • Addictions

  • Depression

  • Grief and loss

  • Single parenting

  • Mental health challenges in children

  • Identity and self-worth issues

  • Financial hardship

  • Anxiety

  • PND

  • Homeschooling parent

  • Narcissistic abuse survivor

  • Broken marriages

Through all this, I have an ability to deeply empathise, listen to and support others as they navigate their own challenges.

It is an absolute honour and privilege to be trusted in helping improve the quality of life for individuals and couples who take the brave step to seek counselling.

Shiloh means “peace”

My desire is for people to know peace and abundance (shiloh) within themselves, and within their relationships.

Butterfly represents transformation

 The butterfly in my logo is a symbol of transformation and freedom, which I believe counselling can be part of facilitating in people’s lives.

 

 

Would you like to chat with Sharne about your counselling needs?